Saturday, April 12, 2008

Saturday Night - Girls Night Out

I ventured out last night to bid farewell to my neighbour who is moving north. It was not a big night for me by any means just a couple of drinks conversation and listening to the band. I also took to do a little people watching and listening and I am always amazed how people can contradict their own words with their actions.

One female member of this party (during our one on one conversation ), declared on several occasions how happy she was with her partner. Her partner is fantastic, fabulous he could do no wrong, in fact evething was so perfect I was feeling a bit giddy myself.

This female member for the evening became very friendly with a complete stranger, such things as sitting on his lap, putting her arma around him and declaring herself 'smashed'. Now if this was not an invitation for this guy to take advantage of her I don't know what is.

Now I ask this question 'Where does being unfaithful or disrespectful to your partner begin?'

My thoughts on this whole situation is if her partner was actually there, there is no way she would even behaving the way she did. Some may call this harmless flirting but ultimately I think it is disrespectful to the absent partner. But alas I have seen him in action on his own as well so there just maybe an agreement between these two. Each to their own I guess!

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