Cuppa?

I have an admirer from my local gym who recently turned up at a local pub to help me celebrate my birthday ( I should make it clear he was invited). This man is someone who I have always considered to be a nice person and I am attracted to him but the age difference is a bit of a worry. He is approximately ten years my senior .

Now here is my quarry when is a cuppa a cuppa or when is a cuppa more then just a cuppa? He asked me on the night via text message which I didn't read until Sunday morning and so nothing eventuated here. He then texts me Sunday night for 'a cuppa' but in the end I rang him up just for a chin wag and declared myself knackered from all my outings so therefore too tired for a cuppa.

Do men ask for a cuppa or coffee when the really do want just company and if any extras get thrown in its a bonus or is a cuppa a drink that never gets drunk followed by a definite shag?

Please give me your opinion!